tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post9026444155942314434..comments2023-06-12T04:39:51.659-07:00Comments on Tinkertines Upsidedown: It doesn't take long to fall in love.Tinkertineshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01728766138337598902noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-1361958373801721492011-06-23T09:11:49.271-07:002011-06-23T09:11:49.271-07:00Oh Tina, I am so sorry to hear this (and to be a l...Oh Tina, I am so sorry to hear this (and to be a little late in the knowing, >_<) I can totally sympathsise: I have also known the life-crashing devistation of miscarriage (x3), the first being at 14 weeks into my first pregnancy. I would never wish such a thing on anyone. It is so crushing as, as you say, all your imagined futures with that tiny peanut are taken from you. Only time, a lot of tears, and the love of those around you can move you through this. Know that everything has a reason for happening and in many ways this was not the time. Not yet. I made a hard choice too before we moved to Canada (how odd how your life sequence mirrors mine), and decided to not expand our family a third time even when the opportunity came. My medical history and spirit knew it was not meant to be. These are the inner burdens and scars we choose to carry and have to learn to come to terms with. It is how we are brave in the face of adversity that defines us, more so ever than the easy successes. Sending you big, virtual hugs and strength as you move forwards on your adventure in the land of Oz :) ...your friend, Bpigwidgethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03926907062940768341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-33066700130716510792011-05-23T18:28:33.790-07:002011-05-23T18:28:33.790-07:00OMG! I am so sorry I missed this post until now......OMG! I am so sorry I missed this post until now...<br /><br />I am in awe of you that you are able to share this very intimate part of your life with everyone. You have such strength and I hope it helps with your healing from such difficulty.<br /><br />Much love and hugs...my heart still hurts for you everytime I think about it. xoCaroline Wnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-2303206699719579272011-05-07T08:01:45.325-07:002011-05-07T08:01:45.325-07:00I'm so sorry about your news. Lily and I both ...I'm so sorry about your news. Lily and I both send our love. <br /><br />Andrea (mom of lily)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-18116054063021497712011-05-06T06:14:16.183-07:002011-05-06T06:14:16.183-07:00as i was reading this i was thinking, ooh, my birt...as i was reading this i was thinking, ooh, my birthday is Dec 20 … if it comes 5 days early … and then, gone. no reason, no one to blame, just an inexplicable loss and a whole new wave of emotions to process. so very sorry Tina. xttraceyb65https://www.blogger.com/profile/08109018150566511128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-62994819987043302922011-05-06T06:10:57.626-07:002011-05-06T06:10:57.626-07:00Thank you all for your kind and thoughtful words.
...Thank you all for your kind and thoughtful words.<br />I feel blessed to have such amazing support from my on-line friends xxTinkertineshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01728766138337598902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-72949974209427525932011-05-06T05:34:06.236-07:002011-05-06T05:34:06.236-07:00You are so strong - thank you for writing about th...You are so strong - thank you for writing about this! I am so sorry for the pain that you have gone through. <br /><br />I've told you this before, but don't feel guilty for the pain you feel. The reality of the situation is: You have lost a child. You're allowed to grieve.<br /><br />We're grieving with you. Love you!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14390231394987275353noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-20040790346647021172011-05-06T04:24:31.779-07:002011-05-06T04:24:31.779-07:00I'm so sorry. I also know this feeling - so m...I'm so sorry. I also know this feeling - so many women do - and you have described it beautifully. I hope that you will have another chance soon.Trishhttp://www.eatshootblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-6699453432742946532011-05-06T04:20:31.648-07:002011-05-06T04:20:31.648-07:00So sorry for your loss.You can make a lifetime of ...So sorry for your loss.You can make a lifetime of plans in four days - I'm sure I would feel exactly the same way as you do.xxBenisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04571828221792556122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-31164282535791280332011-05-06T03:55:46.923-07:002011-05-06T03:55:46.923-07:00You need make no excuse for feeling your loss. And...You need make no excuse for feeling your loss. And by sharing that you do, you validate such feelings for the rest of us who have been where you are. Things like this can help us hold tighter to what we treasure and gives us perspective on what is truly important. Best with the ongoing adventure with your move, am enjoying hearing about it as things progress. Thanks again for sharing,<br /><br />@Jule_E@Jule_Ehttp://facetsofme.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-3742762606142685602011-05-06T03:53:40.312-07:002011-05-06T03:53:40.312-07:00My heart is hurting for you xoxMy heart is hurting for you xoxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-88265646938030847482011-05-06T03:51:27.763-07:002011-05-06T03:51:27.763-07:00I agree with Jodi. Make no excuses for the way you...I agree with Jodi. Make no excuses for the way you feel, and allow the grieving process to heal you. My sincerest condolences.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07506710785620869812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-76356223886331963242011-05-05T20:42:02.855-07:002011-05-05T20:42:02.855-07:00Love you.Love you.Kinganoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-3918033600913124432011-05-05T19:42:01.915-07:002011-05-05T19:42:01.915-07:00I am so glad you wrote this. You have written so p...I am so glad you wrote this. You have written so poignantly about how painful the experience has been. It will happen but right now you have every right to feel sad. Big hugs to beautiful you. xxmamabookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09543258551991778888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6308528356900537385.post-53617041305507975372011-05-05T19:27:01.224-07:002011-05-05T19:27:01.224-07:00Oh Honey, Im SO sorry! Feel any way you need to fe...Oh Honey, Im SO sorry! Feel any way you need to feel. A loss is a loss is a loss is a loss, it doesn't matter how or when. My heart is with you. -KarmicEvolutionJodihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04344728503159515185noreply@blogger.com